Gay Troops Need to Change Diapers on the Battlefield

I don't even think this needs commentary, take a look...

Taking breaks on the combat field to change diapers all because their treacherous sin causes them to lose control of their bowels.
— Chaplain John R. Kauffman

Thank You for The Birthday Wishes!

Just wanted to say thank you to everyone that has sent me a note for my Birthday!  

I'm really excited for this next year!

Here's some #Throwbackthursday as well: 


Should the Military Have Allowed Bud Commercial?

First, if you missed the commercial, here it is: 

At first, the commercial seems really innocent... and heartwarming, but as Phillip Carter pointed out today in Foreign Policy  ..... The military has strict regulations that cannot "suggest official endorsement or preferential treatment" of any "non-Federal entity, event, product, service, or enterprise." 

What would happen if the military would have said no to one beer and allowed Budweiser.  Carter's article is really interesting and I highly recommend reading it.  

Full article here:

What do you think?  Do you think this commercial should have been done with military permission?  

Just Do It!

This is probably the best article I have read in a LONG time about just going after your dreams and forgetting what other people think!  A MUST read: 

It’s impossible to live up to everyone’s expectations.
There will always be people — no matter what we say or how we treat them — that will judge us. Whether you’re at the gym, at work, taking the train, or even online playing Call of Duty. Even now it‘s happening. You will never be able to stop people from judging you, but you can stop it from affecting you.

Think about the worst thing that could possibly happen when someone is judging you or what you’re doing.

I guarantee that chances are — nothing will happen. Absolutely nothing. No one is going to go out of their busy lives to confront us, or even react for that matter. Because as I mentioned before, no one actually cares. What will happen, is that these people will actually respect you for claiming your ground. They may disagree with you, but they’ll respect you.

Start standing up for what you believe in — causes, opinions, anything. You’re going to have people that disagree with you anyways, so why not express how you truly feel?

Jack is Back! 24 Teasers Released

I am huge 24 fan and was excited to learn that 24 is coming back! Fox released teasers today and it looks like Jack Bauer is heading to London...  Take a look below.

Update on my Puppy Monster

As most of you know, I adopted an adorable puppy... She is an alaskan klee kai and I named her Naya.


I took her to visit family during Christmas and she ran away with 10 minutes of being at the farm... It took 6 days to catch her and we had to use a live coyote trap to catch her cause she wouldn't let us approach her... Here is a picture of her when we finally caught her!


She refuses to be contained, even today she chewed up her harness! 

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But at the end of the day, she still is adorable

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Here is a cute video of here refusing to get off my bed (she is scared of heights) 

My Zoo

A lot of people had asked me about my animals, so I thought I would let you know the breeds!

The puppy (Naya) is an Alaskan Klee Kai

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The cat (Ketel) has two extra toes on each paw... called a Hemmingway

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Here is a cute video of them playing together

Welcome to the New Site!

I decided to create a new website so I can write a little more!  Let me know what you think! 




Out Magazine Interview on Leaving OutServe-SLDN

I recently sat down with Jerry Portwood of Out Magazine to discuss why I left OutServe-SLDN and what I am looking at for the future.  Link to the full interview at the bottom! 



The Air Force officer and former OutServe-SLDN board member explains why he left the organization—and his plans for the future

The rumors, accusations, and innuendo surrounding the resignation of OutServe-SLDN Executive Director Allyson Robinson less than a year after she was named the head of the largest LGBT organization working for equality in the military have been raging for several weeks now. That was followed by the resignation of Lt. Josh Seefried, one of the co-founders of OutServe, from its board. "Three years ago, when I started OutServe, I didn't know what the Human Rights Campaign was, and now I've gotten to see a whole cycle of… I've had a helluva roller coaster on this," Seefried said, during his first inteview since news of the organizations financial and leadership troubles emerged.

Read the full interview HERE